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BBbox
25-08-2009, 12:44 PM
Based on veinslikeropes post....
Thought id start a poll.
Would you tell your gf if you cheated on her?
Why or why not?
Born2Juice4Ever
25-08-2009, 12:47 PM
I only see two options...I cannot reply to the poll.
Diversify the options please :D :D
B2J
BBbox
25-08-2009, 07:09 PM
:fback
Gemini
25-08-2009, 07:17 PM
The answer is NO! But it's not like I'm a guy who would try to cheat over and over again. Let's say if I cheated "under the influence" once on the girl I want to live the rest of my life with, than NO! I would never tell her. Don't push your luck tough!
Gemini
25-08-2009, 07:19 PM
If you're with a girl who likes you but you only see her as a friend with benefits, than I wouldn't really feel bad cheating on her! If she ever finds out that your only with her for the sex and you cheated on her a couple times though, it could turn out ugly. TRUST ME!
Depends on yourself, and how you feel about the girl.
I got busted once, really liked the girl, could have gotten away with it when she found out, but it made me sick thinking about it, lol. So I told her. Broke up with her, which was for the best anyways.
_Ragnar_
25-08-2009, 07:26 PM
dont cheat then there is nothing to tell
Born2Juice4Ever
25-08-2009, 07:29 PM
1)- yes
2)- no
3)- I would never cheat
4)- I like fat chicks
How about those for a little diversity?
I would choose number 3 of course.
b2J
BBbox
25-08-2009, 07:42 PM
I guess I should have added an "I wouldnt cheat" option B2J. But thats not really the point of the poll! If youre not a cheater you dont need to reply.
And for the guys that answered no without an explanation.... we now know what youre doing in your spare time ;) Your poor ol ladys! I guess veinslikeropes doesnt need to feel so bad after all, hes not the only one.
champcar99
25-08-2009, 08:28 PM
NO WAY deny deny deny.. I would only admit it if the chick i was cheating with mentioned it to my girl and I couldn't convince my girl the chick was lieing..
BBbox
25-08-2009, 11:53 PM
I hope not many chicks read this board.
They will think all bb guys are cheaters!
There has to be SOME guys here that are honest with their gfs?
hahahah. who am I kidding.
LIVEHARD
25-08-2009, 11:59 PM
Yes before I did it
I big on the see ya Its over !!!!!!!
I have played all the games in my 20's and into my 30's
If what you F'k sleep with isnt good enough why are you there in the first place.
I see 3 women but I'm open about it till Ms right comes along.
So thats the difference between commitment and sex !!!!!!!1
countrychic
26-08-2009, 12:04 AM
The answer is NO! But it's not like I'm a guy who would try to cheat over and over again. Let's say if I cheated "under the influence" once on the girl I want to live the rest of my life with, than NO! I would never tell her. Don't push your luck tough!
"under the influence" ....sorry that's a poor excuse.
LIVEHARD
26-08-2009, 02:29 AM
"under the influence" ....sorry that's a poor excuse.
If you want to F'k and just f'k keep the relationship just that.
but when you play promise and offer commitment for personal gain and selfishness its not fair
many women just want to f'k just like we do find one two or ten
I don't understand why men need a girl / wife / partner just to fk around to me that is a huge sign of in security in a man
make a choice in or out but make a choice I would want a partner who kept secrets from me
countrychic
26-08-2009, 07:26 AM
If you want to F'k and just f'k keep the relationship just that.
but when you play promise and offer commitment for personal gain and selfishness its not fair
many women just want to f'k just like we do find one two or ten
I don't understand why men need a girl / wife / partner just to fk around to me that is a huge sign of in security in a man
make a choice in or out but make a choice I would want a partner who kept secrets from me
I completely agree....but if you are f'king around on someone that you have that commitment with and love and your excuse is bc your "under the influence" to me that's a sad sorry excuse. Your not mature enough to put alchol in your mouth.
canadianmuscle0803
26-08-2009, 07:31 AM
you already got my answer in your other thread..
canadianmuscle0803
26-08-2009, 07:34 AM
I for one will not and have not cheated on any of my gf's, and yes ive had many opportunities, ( im dead sexy ) but the things is this.. why are you in a relationship if your going to cheat? does it even make sense? i know some of you guys are young so i kind of understand, but lots of you guys out here dont have a clue about the real world yet, you live in this bubble thinking actions dont have consequences, keep this mind set up and your setting your whole future up into flames.
RagingRandy
26-08-2009, 09:00 AM
"under the influence" ....sorry that's a poor excuse.
Is there a good excuse?
Is there a good excuse?
Yes...area code rule is one or the lights were off I and I thought it was you. Or if they have a twin I mean anyone could make that mistake...
waderow
26-08-2009, 09:46 AM
I hope not many chicks read this board.
They will think all bb guys are cheaters!
There has to be SOME guys here that are honest with their gfs?
hahahah. who am I kidding.
I would never cheat, but I admit to fantasizing and looking hard at hot girls all the time
LIVEHARD
26-08-2009, 09:56 AM
I would never cheat, but I admit to fantasizing and looking hard at hot girls all the time
Thats ok normal try not to do it in front of your lady it hurts there feelings and there self esteem.
I find allot of guys are always looking for something better hotter. Its all about impressing there peers.
But those men are insecure and need there sure thing at home there security blanket.
Just in case the hot chick thinks there a lump with a little dick and a shit F'k with nothing to offer.
but at least you get to tell your boys you smashed that hot one !!!!
I don't know why men play all these games
Sorry I'm straight up I tell them I want sex period no dates no phone calls I don't want to sleep over cuddle.
Many women respect and deal with this quite easily the need cock as much a we need there pussy's
Till I meet ms right thats the way it is.
wrought
26-08-2009, 01:37 PM
1)- yes
2)- no
3)- I would never cheat
4)- I like fat chicks
****ing fat chicks doesn't count...its like giving to charity. :tu
bigtavi8
26-08-2009, 02:02 PM
**** id have to i have a guilty conscience and i really would tell i cant live with secrets man..
BBbox
26-08-2009, 04:07 PM
The only fair options are really to tell the girl or just break it off
rufusrocks
26-08-2009, 04:55 PM
you have to tell her. never mind girlfriend what about your wife? tell her and move on or if you love her explain and don't do it again if she wants she loves you she may want to keep it going. it doesn't have to end but it might she has the right to know and decide.
physique
26-08-2009, 04:57 PM
you probably have alot more votes if your poll results didnt list peoples handles of how they voted.
BBbox
27-08-2009, 09:56 AM
I just thought leaving it open would benefit VLR.
He can talk to the dudes who are in the same boat as him (I know some of the guys... like Jersey... who answered "no" have gfs)
Thought they would be able to give him the best advice since they have had the same experience as him/ are also in relationships where theyve kept their cheating from the girls.
i dont see the problem with leaving it open really, if you have the balls to do it you should be able to share it with your fellow CBBers
BBbox
27-08-2009, 10:24 AM
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Born2Juice4Ever
27-08-2009, 10:26 AM
I only see two options...I cannot reply to the poll.
Diversify the options please :D :D
B2J
:bday
I never have, but I dont seem to stay in relationships very long.
BBbox
28-08-2009, 12:56 PM
Hm.
You know what has me confused about this poll?
There was another one a couple months ago about whether you would cheat or not.
Some people said no... they would not cheat... but then answered this one saying they wouldnt tell the girl they cheated on.
Thats a little bit conflicting is it not?
Gemini
28-08-2009, 04:17 PM
"under the influence" ....sorry that's a poor excuse.
I'm just saying if and only if it were to happen. I know you can't use alcohol as an excuse to cheat or anything else as a matter of fact but sometimes drinking too much can lead you do to stupid things you wouldn't normally do sober. I'm just saying that because I know more than one person (mostly girls btw) who actually cheated while being intoxicated, while some of them actually seemed to use the fact they were wasted as an opportunity to cheat I know a few who would've never even thought to cheat on their loved ones while sober and just got carried away one night and deeply regret it. That kinda stuff happens... but if it becomes a habit it's pretty obvious the person cheating doesn't really care about the outcomes
BBbox
31-08-2009, 11:44 AM
Veinslikeropes.... what did you decide?
My dad is a huge fkin douche and has been cheating on my mom for years. Living with someone who does that and watching what is has done to her (im sure hes never admitted it but we all know) makes you realize that hiding shit like that just makes you a scumbag.
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