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[Felinecougar]

I'm happy living alone with my teens now..he moved into the city so he can enjoy and get his much needed sleep and deal with his anger and his Mexican mistress that ended our 20 yr marriage... : 0 go figure.

.but how do I handle going to a friends daughters wedding alone next Sat night?

Take a girl friend? Most are young women the age of my daughters.

Ask a male buddy? They alos are half my age too.

Post on facebook "I need a date?"

If I go alone am I the talk of the table?....why is she alone? Is she going to hit on our dates to dance..etc?

I asked hubby to go with me (who I am not sharing the same home)..the mom of the bride was our maid of honor. He does not want to commit a whole day to such an event. This says to me how much he enjoys my company.

I want to go..have fun but how does one do this in my situation?

[LIVEHARD]

I'm happy living alone with my teens now..he moved into the city so he can enjoy and get his much needed sleep and deal with his anger and his Mexican mistress that ended our 20 yr marriage... : 0 go figure.

.but how do I handle going to a friends daughters wedding alone next Sat night?

Take a girl friend? Most are young women the age of my daughters.

Ask a male buddy? They alos are half my age too.

Post on facebook "I need a date?"

If I go alone am I the talk of the table?....why is she alone? Is she going to hit on our dates to dance..etc?

I asked hubby to go with me (who I am not sharing the same home)..the mom of the bride was our maid of honor. He does not want to commit a whole day to such an event. This says to me how much he enjoys my company.

I want to go..have fun but how does one do this in my situation?Your a beautiful women SOLO key word I bet there will be a handsome elegant man on his own at the event !!!!!!! Good Luck


Ps I would dawn a suit and help you out but I will be in the USA next weekend SORRY

[Seth]

guys go to weddings hoping to find single women. Unless they're getting married that day, it's the only reason that'll drag a single man there. You'll have people with you all day long, don't worry and have a blast

[anabolix]

i definitely wouldn't be going with your hubby (cheatin bastard) ... go, have fun SOLO .. unless you have someone in mind that you think you would enjoy yourself with

im assuming the news is out re: your situation, so people are gonna talk regardless of who you go with. i think showing up with him would show people that you don't respect yourself.

so go solo, have a fun being 'free' or grab a good friend and enjoy the your friends daughters special day (which, btw, will be the centre of attention, taking most if not all off of you)

[Sean Summers]

Solo. Don't take the ex. Who cares what others think.
SS

[Tiamat]

Take a girlfriend. If the guests are horribly boring, at least you can hit the bar with your friend.

[Dryvrgrl]

Bring your daughter!... no one can critisize for bringing family! plus it's good to include your teenagers in your life!

Or start living up to your name and pull a total COUGAR move!!! find some young hottie and let EVERYONE start talking!!! MEOW!!!...lol

[INked]

Show up alone with a hot dress and even hotter heels and rock it!:yeah

[Mr Ontario]

and you know I go with you if I could ;)

[MMASTAR]

I would go alone and have a good time.. its important to show everyone that you are a strong women and dont need to depend on anyone to be ok. Go solo and have some fun.

[Mr Ontario]

Sounds like something you would do :)


Show up alone with a hot dress and even hotter heels and rock it!:yeah

[troy_trinity]

I'm new here so I don't know exactly what happened with you and your ex.

However- why the hell would you take someone to a wedding if you were single? It's the perfect place to meet people. You are put in a "forced" environment where you basically have to make small talk so it's not as awkward because you all know that it's normal.

Also- every single guy at a wedding is looking for the single girls to go mingle with. Once again in your favour.

So- just dress nice go alone- make some eye contact with some good looking guys- let stuff go from there :)

[piller01]

f.c you are a very beautiful woman both inside and out you will find a guy or should i say he will find you dh doesn't know what he is missing out on go solo it shows pride and men go crazy over a woman with pride hell if i was single and a woman your age asked me on a date i would feel flattered.:sexy

[ironwill]

Sounds like something you would do :)

lololol

FC, its a small world, everyone will know your situation anyways, people love to talk...Go alone, enjoy the time with your friends, show them you are strong and independent...Have a blast and you will feel great guaranteed...
Its tough but you have done well so far....You are a big person and can handle it......
then when you get home booty call.......:a+

[Ritch]

To be honest, if it`s the first time you`re with a guy, bringing him to a wedding is really a bad idea. I`m such a bad person that even if my best friend asked me to go with her to a wedding, I wouldn`t go. But then again she knows I`d say that, so she wouldn`t even ask me... I`d go by myself if I were you. Hope you have a good time!

[manfreakca]

go alone pretty girl!!have a good time!!

[the-vanilla-gorilla]

FC- **** what they say people say let them talk!
Your hot!!! Sexy AND! in SHAPE! and most everyone at the wedding aint gonna be all of those! in one!
SHTRUT your stuff girl!
HAVE FUN !




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[countrychic]

i agree...who cares what other's think. Go have fun.....your single :)

[GYMBRAT]

wooooop it up on your own girl, then come back on here and kiss and tell LOL jk

....I think youll have a much better time if you go it on your own with no one holding ya down ;)

have fun!!

[macka]

fly solo, who knows, you might have a bunch of young guys fighting to be nice to you, all in the hopes of a little attention from you. I know where I would be sitting if I was going :D

[LIVEHARD]

WOULD SOMETHING LIKE THIS DO ??? LOL



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[BlueStar]

I'm happy living alone with my teens now..he moved into the city so he can enjoy and get his much needed sleep and deal with his anger and his Mexican mistress that ended our 20 yr marriage... : 0 go figure.

.but how do I handle going to a friends daughters wedding alone next Sat night?

Take a girl friend? Most are young women the age of my daughters.

Ask a male buddy? They alos are half my age too.

Post on facebook "I need a date?"

If I go alone am I the talk of the table?....why is she alone? Is she going to hit on our dates to dance..etc?

I asked hubby to go with me (who I am not sharing the same home)..the mom of the bride was our maid of honor. He does not want to commit a whole day to such an event. This says to me how much he enjoys my company.

I want to go..have fun but how does one do this in my situation?

totally go solo...

it forces you to get out of comfort zone and talk to other people... be surprised some of the cool people might meet!

when i got divorced... i literally forced myself to go out to bars by myself, and always ended up meeting some people...

same with eating out.. i never hesitate (even though now in relationship) to go out for dinner alone... usually sit at the bar area... this kinda stuff was WAY out my comfort zone when started, but just got used to talking to new people...

[Scaffer]

show up with a wedding dress,messy hair and a Japanese sword!

[Monka]

Hey ya, imo a wedding is perfect for you to have fun!!!
First thing, get hubby out of your head! Get some SEXY lingerie ( so you feel good), and nice high heels for start (comfy shoes for after)
Its your time to enjoy, so get hair done, nails, and your favorite dress or might be a reason for a NEW dress :).. and dress up all classy AND sexy as possible, you'll feel great, and lol with your looks you might steal the attention of ALL the men, hehe
I know for fact you'll not be alone once there, no one at a wedding would ingore you. IF anything, you'll be getting hit on most night and wedding are a great place to meet people also, LOTS go alone,
IF you go alone, youll be ok once there, to GET there might be bit hard (stress). but once in and settled you'll definatly enjoy. Go out FC, and enjoy!!! When you think back on this wedding on Saturady, you'll be happier you went instead of watching the tube all night and WISH you went... GO GO GO GO and enjoy!!!! Don't just wish, go enjoy and be happy!!

hope all the memeber here helped ya decide.. Everyone seems to say go also ;)

[St]

You should go Solo,many single men go there to see if there are any single lady's.

[kidmode]

Ya I also agree with the guys, get out there and rock out, but geez if I was one of your half-aged friends I'd be so stoked if you asked me to go to a wedding with you! lol Have fun whatever you decide to do!




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Ya :) I'm glad I found this place. Everyone is so quick to boost each other rather than rip each other apart. Very good atmosphere.

[Felinecougar]

I'm going SOLO everyone. Yep...thanks reading all these posts makes me feel that I have to get out of my comfort zone. Sitting on the patio every Sat night is not going to happen this coming one.

Now to find a DD. My teen will drive me earlier but I need to find a driver home.. The new laws scare me.

[LIVEHARD]

I'm going SOLO everyone. Yep...thanks reading all these posts makes me feel that I have to get out of my comfort zone. Sitting on the patio every Sat night is not going to happen this coming one.

Now to find a DD. My teen will drive me earlier but I need to find a driver home.. The new laws scare me.

Great idea and good luck 20 years of emotions are hard to let go and you need some FC time to heal and enjoy. Its about you now not getting back at the X it's your time enjoy find someone some thing you enjoy thats new and exciting

best sincerely

[Mr Ontario]

Actually a little time off can't hurt you. Clear your head....get the divorce finalized etc

[waderow]

take it from the king of not caring what people think.... (i admitted to getting diddled remember?)

do not worry. you are conjuring up things that do not matter, or likely wont happen....


go have fun!

[rufusrocks]

I'm happy living alone with my teens now..he moved into the city so he can enjoy and get his much needed sleep and deal with his anger and his Mexican mistress that ended our 20 yr marriage... : 0 go figure.

.but how do I handle going to a friends daughters wedding alone next Sat night?

Take a girl friend? Most are young women the age of my daughters.

Ask a male buddy? They alos are half my age too.

Post on facebook "I need a date?"

If I go alone am I the talk of the table?....why is she alone? Is she going to hit on our dates to dance..etc?

I asked hubby to go with me (who I am not sharing the same home)..the mom of the bride was our maid of honor. He does not want to commit a whole day to such an event. This says to me how much he enjoys my company.

I want to go..have fun but how does one do this in my situation?

do what you want. the fact is we have a tendency to be harder on ourselves than others do. the fact you are invited go and have fun. nobody will judge you. be yourself. circumstances are just excuses, problems, situations. you'll be fine go. don't feel bad ok. celebrate their moment!!!!

be well

[Felinecougar]

I sat with the priest who married the bride and groom.

Enough said.